I don't understand why it is so hard for a girl and a guy to just be friends. Why does it have to be someting more? Why do other people have to complicate it and turn it in to something it shouldn't have to be?
I've always had more guy friends than girlfriends because guys tend to be mroe fun with less drama. It always seems to trun into something mor ethan friendship for them, though. Don;t get me wrong, I am absolutely flattered, but if that is what I wanted out of the relationship, I would make it clear. Yes, I know that some of the best and longest lasting relationships start out with the couple being friends, but they wanted to bring on that change. I'm sure that there outside friends did not force them to become something they were not. I thought all of that stopped when you go tout of high school. Guess I was wrong.
It sucks being in that situation with a guy friend because you already hang out all the time together, but now it is awkward because other start to believe that somthing is going on. Then, when you are out in public, no other guy is going to want to hit on you because "Jealous Jim" is right behind you all night. Then, if you do flirt with another guy, you are a bitch because you broke the guy's heart and more than likely your friendship is ruined.
Momma said there'd be days like this, right?
Monday, January 14, 2008
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